Why Not Ask Why?

I love to read and occasionally come across some statements I disagree with.  Recently, I came across the following: “ ‘Why’ questions result only in recriminations or accusations, burying my creative energies under tons of ‘shoulds’ and ‘oughts’ which leave me paralyzed with guilt or self-righteousness.” “ ‘Why’ questions, like Harpies, suck out the blood… Read More

Our Bubbling Spring of Intent

Intent springs forth from the center of who we are.  It emerges from combination of the choices that well up from within, the rational decisions we make as well as our integration with the unfolding situation.  Intent is our motive power that gives us purpose and meaning through the actions we take to achieve it. … Read More

Finding Patience in our Mental Weather

The boundary between the unconscious and consciousness is elusive.  It’s more of a moving threshold rather than a specific classification of elements.  This threshold varies with our focus, attention to detail, energy level, and integration with our environment.  The elements constantly change from conscious to unconscious and back again.  It is much like the water… Read More

A Valued Life

Welcome to BizOfYou (BOY) is about living A Valued Live which is founded upon the axioms of: Becoming and Being alive requires us to act on our decisions. Our values drive our decisions You live the life you value A valued life is thriving through integrity.  It’s about understanding ourselves as a system of elements just… Read More