Your Self Contract

A self contract is an agreement between your present and future self about what’s most important to you.  It may be written or simply internalized.  It draws together the critical aspects of yourself and applies it to what you want out of life.  It requires a vision of yourself in the future and an understanding… Read More

No Matter What You Do, Do It Well

My dad used to tell me, “If you do something, do it right.”  If we spend our time and energy on something, we might as well get the most return out of it as possible.  To get the greatest return requires directing our attention on the task at hand and making doing as well as… Read More

Nothing Like Getting Laid Off

Getting laid off, fired or let go in any capacity sucks.  It peaks emotions and some folks lose control.  Our mental model for life begins breaking down.  Our house of cards tumbles down and it’s easy to get overwhelmed with thoughts of, “What am I going to do?” or “I didn’t see this coming.”  We… Read More

Approaching Major Decisions

It’s essential to know what’s important to us when approaching a major decision like switching careers, changing jobs, or heading into retirement.  Do you know what’s key and critical in your life?  Have you created a contract with yourself prior to negotiating a contract with a new company?  How does your free time or time… Read More

Entitlement Crap

NOTE: For those who know me, this may not have the typical energy of topics that get me riled. I’m aiming at a very large audience and my cursing has been removed. I’m not one to rant, but I saw something this week that irks me to no end. What’s worse is I’ve heard it… Read More