Our Behavior Begets Success

I recently had a parent teacher conference.  My eight year old daughter is doing well.  She improved from the first conference this year.  What struck me is a discussion we had with the teacher about behavior.  The list of behaviors of behaviors evaluated are: takes pride in work, works independently does neat work positive attitude… Read More

Leveraging Our Interactions

Our paradigms are the beliefs about how our world works and ultimately guides our actions.  As Andrew Bernstein points out in The Myth of Stress, “We don’t see things as they are. We see things as we believe them to be.” Thus, if we can change or alter our paradigm to better integrate into our… Read More

What’s your intention?

The word intention has it’s roots in the Latin Intendere (intend).  To intend something is to ‘direct the attention to.’  Our attention is directed by both our conscious and unconscious minds.  Unconsciously, our drives, instincts and impulses have a direction with some rooted deep in our psyche’s and part of our genetic programming.  Sometimes we… Read More

Our Manageable Properties

The means by which we achieve our desired states like pleasure, happiness and satisfaction, are the properties that we can directly influence.  Manageable properties are intrinsic and naturally belong in our lives.  A symbol of this is the center of a wheel.  By directly affecting the hub, we move all  attached to that hub.  And… Read More

Our Primary Resource, Time

The first resource we all have some measure of control over is time.  As Dr. Tolian Soran said in the movie Star Trek Generations, “Time is the fire in which we burn.”  This is a common sentiment especially when we do not use that fire to accomplish what we choose.   When others choose the objectives… Read More