Intolerance of ambiguity is a reflection of an authoritarian mindset. Being certain is comfortable. It’s the easy path through the dark woods of life. It’s a defense mechanism against the truth of the unknown. Assuming we know why things are the way the way they are creates a barrier to the truth that is continually… Read More
Death Becomes Us
Death Becomes Us whether that be our own or the passing of friends or family. Our process approach to life is what allows us to withstand the thousand natural shocks that flesh is heir to. Read More
The Biz of You Eulogy
Will your eulogy be about how much time and energy you invested in work? Read More
Get Over Yourself
Ask for some help to get past your pockets of incompetence or inaccurate self conception Read More
Practice to Evolve
Know your center, love it and live through is so you can evolve your life and improve your capacity for independent action. Read More
Without Integrity, we look like Fools.
Integrity is the basis of our existence. It builds our character and enables us to lead ourselves towards our purposes. Read More
Congruence
It’s time to get over ourselves and question are integrity. Read More
Embrace the Mistakes
My wife has been working with our daughter on the importance of going through the grading of her homework when the teachers give it back. Of course, our daughter doesn’t like it when she’s wrong. Most people don’t. She take’s it personally and gets down on herself. Being wrong is a misconception and to take… Read More
Embracing the Dark Side
This post could come from different angles as the “dark side” can refer to many different things, some quite fun. To keep with the nature of this blog, the dark side I refer to is what was previously posted. The dark side of freedom is our choice and the fantasy of everything we could be or… Read More
Observing and Orienting Ourselves
Most of my posts follow the same structure. There’s an observation followed by an orientation to the idea of managing the business of you. This approach illustrates the first two steps of a process we all follow when awake. We observe or experience what’s happening around us. We naturally orient our experience to our map… Read More
