Why Not Ask Why?

I love to read and occasionally come across some statements I disagree with.  Recently, I came across the following: “ ‘Why’ questions result only in recriminations or accusations, burying my creative energies under tons of ‘shoulds’ and ‘oughts’ which leave me paralyzed with guilt or self-righteousness.” “ ‘Why’ questions, like Harpies, suck out the blood… Read More

Sea of Troubles

We face a myriad of difficulties changing day-to-day, month to month and year to year.  At times it is overwhelming.  It’s easy to get lost in our woes and worries when constraints out number the freedoms in our lives.  In these times it is extremely important to use the social resources available in our lives and… Read More

Are You Professional?

What is professional? According to a dictionary, to be professional is to be engaged in an activity as one’s main paid occupation rather than a pastime. What is unprofessional? Looking at the same computer dictionary, to be unprofessional is to be below the standards expected in a particular profession. What the…?  Being unprofessional is about… Read More

Finding Our Serenity

How we respond, not react, to the issues presented to us determine how well we resolve it. Last week the doctor working with my daughter called my wife who was on travel for work.  In the call she communicated our daughter has a tumor with hardly any more information. Rightly so, my wife called me… Read More