Pimps and Nannies

Look around and there’s all kinds of positive self-help, coaching and marketing mumbo jumbo.  We crave it like cocaine, crack or any other highly addictive drug.  The positive pushing pimps of the world wield it to sucker us into all kinds of things like buying Coke, cars or cream to make our pimples vanish. It’s… Read More

We Are Addicted

We are addicted to positive feedback.  We are addicted to being unique and different from everyone else.  We crave standing out.  Our addiction is fed by advertisements, information and products we consume.  Materialism is not the problem.  By going away from material or technology we stand out from the crowd once again and find disappointment… Read More

Own Up To Yourself

We get wrapped up in how we think things ought to be.  Being wrapped around the axial of whatever is going on inside our heads prevents us from connecting with the reality of the situation unfolding around us. Our emotions flare. Things get thrown or doors get slammed.  In the worst cases we wind up hurting someone… Read More

Make a Damn Decision

If you can’t make decisions, you’re not a leader.  You restrict your ability to adapt and thus lose flexibility and diversity.  Over time lack of decision-making will cause you to atrophy and be cut off from the systems you integrate with.  This further restricts your ability to evolve with the world around you.  Meaninglessness creeps… Read More